The Impact of Missing Fathers on Teen Girls

Missing fathers impact daughters just as much as they do sons, possibly even more. A young girl who’s cherished by her father will be more likely to respect herself as an adult, and she’ll be better able to relate to God and those around her. The presence of both parents is essential to a child’s self-esteem.

Studies show that girls raised without fathers develop differently than girls raised in two-parent households, and not in a good way. A girl missing her father is more likely to:

• Become pregnant at an early age;
• Dabble with narcotics and alcohol;
• Participate in delinquent acts;
• Submit to promiscuity, even prostitution;
• Fail at school and lack goals.

So what can a single mother do to steer her daughter down the right path? Is it possible to raise happy, healthy young women without a male role model?

The answer is yes, and here’s how:

• Don’t seek fulfillment by finding another man. Focus on developing a relationship with your daughter. Romance can wait.

• Set aside a special day for the two of you. Use this time to go shopping, grab some lunch, and talk.
• Don’t brush her aside for other responsibilities. If she needs your advice, listen. The bills can wait.
• See how her day went. Even if she acts as though she doesn’t want to talk, the fact that you care speaks volumes.
• Celebrate her passions. For example, if she likes to paint, buy her some utensils or sign her up for a class.
• Be a parent, not a best buddy. Many parents try desperately to become friends with their kids, while neglecting their obligations. Show up to PTA meetings, set rules, and make sure she abides by them.

As a single mother, by taking an active interest in your daughter, you’ll give her the confidence and ability to go far in life. Sometimes, a mother’s love is all that’s needed.

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Angie Woodward is a Registered Nurse in Wyoming and is the founder and owner/director of Trinity Teen Solutions, Inc. TTS is a licensed Christian Boarding School for troubled teen girls and their families. Call 307-645-3384 for a free consultation.

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